Here are some useful information resources contributed by our members:
- Information for Newbies (check this out!)
- Bernie’s presentation at the Guelph Sexuality Conference
- List of kink-friendly professionals
- Articles from Whiplash Magazine
- Red Flags for Kinky Folk
- Meeting with Someone for the First Time
- A “Safe Call” form
- Information about addition in the LGBTQ community
- A Checklist for sharing your interests with a play partner
- A bibliography of BDSM books
- A Fetiquette White Paper written by arnora and Bernie
- A diagram of a spanking bench, created by Ted S
- A diagram of a spanking horse, created by JG
- Schematic for a TENS unit
- A playlist of scene-appropriate music
- A list of submissives’ rights
- Information on “sub drop”
- A “coming out” letter
- Playing With Food
- Playing With Electricity
- A Taxonomy of BDSM Events
- A list of “Do’s” and “Don’ts” for meeting people in the scene
If you have information that you would like to contribute, let us know using the Contact Us link at the top of this page.